What happens when all the church growth principles that were working in your church, suddenly stop working when you need them the most?
As the pastor of a fast-growing church, Paul Dazet had it happen to him.
Shortly after he was diagnosed with cancer, over 100 members left, saying things like “I just can’t handle being sad at church,” and “It used to be so energetic. Your illness changed the whole vibe.” Paul’s illness and the shaved head that went with it were seen as a show of weakness, need, and vulnerability that many people were uncomfortable seeing on a church platform.
But it’s not all bad news. Paul also walks us through the positive changes he has made in his approach to pastoring, including allowing space for lament, and how he now defines ministry success.
Links
- Paul’s article on Substack
- Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/pastorpauldazet/
- Instagram – @pauldazet
- Twitter / X – @pauldazet
- Bluesky – @pastorpaul.bsky.social
- Libby
- Hoopla
Bonus Content
The Five False Jesus’ of the “Successful” Church, with Paul Dazet
A subscribers-only conversation with Paul Dazet about how a numerically-growing church isn’t necessarily a healthy church. I talk with Paul about the 5 ways churches can be tempted to see Jesus that are not what Jesus intended for his church. They are:
- “Jesus is here to meet your every need” (Consumeristic Jesus).
- “Jesus wants you rich” (Prosperity Jesus)
- “Jesus votes red, white, and blue” (Nationalistic Jesus)
- “Jesus is disappointed in you” (Judgmental Jesus)
- “Jesus only loves people who look and believe like us” (Exclusive Jesus)
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Karl Vaters produces resources for Helping Small Churches Thrive at KarlVaters.com.
He's the author of five books on church leadership, including his newest, De-Sizing the Church: How Church Growth Became a Science, Then an Obsession, and What's Next. His other books include The Grasshopper Myth and Small Church Essentials.
Karl also hosts a bi-weekly podcast, The Church Lobby: Conversations on Faith & Ministry, featuring in-depth interviews about topics that concern pastors, especially those who minister in a small church context. He has served in small-church ministry for over 40 years, so he speaks and writes from decades of hands-on pastoral experience.
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