More than any other time of the year, Christmas is filled with traditions.
It’s one of the many reasons we love the holiday season.
It’s also something our churches need to pay closer attention to. Before a church holds any event, program, or service, we should always ask “why?” And Christmas is no exception.
“Why do we do this?” “Why do we do it in this way?” and “Does this event or tradition fit with the current mission of our church, or are we just doing it because we’ve always done it?”
Then, if it does fit, we need to ask “is there anything about it that needs to be updated for current generations?”
And maybe most important of all, “what aspects of our church’s Christmas events or traditions need to be explained instead of just assumed?”
For instance:
- If Christmas is about the birth of Jesus, why do we have a Christmas tree on our platform?
- If we don’t, why don’t we?
- What is Advent, and why is it different from Christmas?
- What bigger story is the biblical account of Jesus’ birth tied to, and why does it matter?
Regular church attenders may understand the “why?” behind our traditions (although probably not as much as we think), but it may not be so clear to our guests. And this time of the year we may have more guests than ever.

Use Traditions To Build Bridges
I’m not saying we should dump any of our traditions.
But we need to be careful not to let our beloved Christmas traditions create a bigger wall between insiders and outsiders. We have enough of that during the rest of the year already.
Taking a few minutes to explain our Christmas traditions has several advantages:
- First, it can help us decide which traditions to keep and which ones to get rid of – as in, if we can’t explain why we’re doing it, maybe we shouldn’t be.
- Second, it can help fill our traditions with new life and purpose. Knowing why we do something always gives the event or tradition a greater value.
- Third, it builds a bridge between insiders and outsiders. When we all know the “why”, no one feels left out.

Point To Jesus
Whatever we do as a church needs to serve a bigger purpose than the event itself. It must point to Christ, it must serve the church’s mission, and it must build on the past, not keep us stuck there.
Asking “why?” can help a church infuse their Christmas celebrations with greater hope, joy, mission and purpose.
And isn’t that what Christmas should be about anyway?
(Photo by James | Flickr)
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Karl Vaters produces resources for Helping Small Churches Thrive at KarlVaters.com.
He's the author of five books on church leadership, including his newest, De-Sizing the Church: How Church Growth Became a Science, Then an Obsession, and What's Next. His other books include The Grasshopper Myth and Small Church Essentials.
Karl also hosts a bi-weekly podcast, The Church Lobby: Conversations on Faith & Ministry, featuring in-depth interviews about topics that concern pastors, especially those who minister in a small church context. He has served in small-church ministry for over 40 years, so he speaks and writes from decades of hands-on pastoral experience.
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