The 10 Percent Grace Rule: Judging Without Being Judgmental

I’m going to say something stupid soon. So will you. When it happens, I hope people will give both of us the benefit of the doubt and assume the best of us, instead of the worst. Since I hope to be the beneficiary of such grace, I try to live my life by giving the same grace to others. Even to people I disagree with. But we can’t just nod and smile at untrue, unkind or unChristian statements, either. We need to practice reasonable judgment about what people say and write. Sometimes those statements need to be challenged, lovingly, but firmly. As always, Jesus said it best. We need to, “Stop judging by mere appearances, and make a right judgment” (John 7:24). But how do we do that? As Christians and as consumers of content, how do we balance wise discernment with forgiveness and grace?

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I’m going to say something stupid soon.

So will you.

When it happens, I hope people will give both of us the benefit of the doubt and assume the best of us, instead of the worst.

Since I hope to be the beneficiary of such grace, I try to live my life by giving the same grace to others. Even to people I disagree with.

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